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How to “Pick your outfit appropriately”

It’s time to party, which means it’s time to choose my party out­fit. I want to look hawt but not so hawt that I “attract those not-so-respectful guys.”

Lucky for me, I found some tips on how to pull this off in “Sur­vival Guide: College-partying tips and how-tos that save your mind and dig­nity — Pick your out­fit appro­pri­ately.” This was pub­lished in The Louisville Car­di­nal:

It should be com­mon sense,” the author astutely observes, “but choos­ing the right attire for any occa­sion is cru­cial. Just in case you do attract those not-so-respectful guys,” the author sug­gests tak­ing the fol­low­ing pre­cau­tion­ary measures:

1. “Be sure to cover up the assets.” (Might I sug­gest an off-shore bank.)

2. “The goods should not be on dis­play for every­one.” Again with the commodification.

3. Wear “noth­ing see-through, too thin or too short.”

4. Show no bras or under­wear and “def­i­nitely no would-be cen­sored body parts.” (Exnay on the ass­less chapsay.)

I think it’s safe to assume based on cur­rent stan­dards of dress for men and women that tips #1–4 are meant for women. There is but one bro-tip:

5. “Guys should stick to clean shirts (if pos­si­ble).” If possible!

Remem­ber, this “common-sense” advice will help you in case you “attract those not-so-respectful guys.” Because how “not-so-respectful guys” react to you is some­thing you have con­trol over?

No. It is not.

Women (and men) have been and will be vic­tims of unwanted sex­ual atten­tion no mat­ter how they dress. After you’ve made it clear that the sex­ual atten­tion is unwanted but the per­son does not stop, it becomes sex­ual harass­ment. Sex­ual harass­ment is not caused by cloth­ing. It is caused by the “not-so-respectful guys” ASSHOLES who sex­u­ally harass.

Instead of telling women how to dress to avoid sex­ual harass­ment I don’t know maybe we tell men (and all peo­ple) not to sex­u­ally harass peo­ple at par­ties, on a boat, in a moat, eat­ing a root beer float?

Just a tip.

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Planned Parenthood president speaks in Louisville

I had the plea­sure of attend­ing Planned Parenthood’s cock­tail reception/fundraiser, at which PP pres­i­dent Cecile Richards spoke & min­gled. The recep­tion took place last night at the gor­geous bar/restaurant/art gallery/hotel 21 c.

Planned Par­ent­hood pres­i­dent Cecile Richards min­gles with the crowd at 21 c. Pho­tos by Richard Becker.

Richards is both charm­ing and dis­arm­ing. She pos­sesses that unique abil­ity com­mon in great lead­ers to make you feel, not like you’re the only per­son in the room, but like you’re the only per­son in the room with whom she wants to speak.

Cecile Richards telling me an amus­ing and at the same time dis­turb­ing story about her recent appear­ance on The Daily Show with Jon Stewart.

Mem­bers of the Ken­tucky chap­ter of UniteWomen.org, includ­ing Eryn Heakin, Stage Stage Coor­di­na­tor, Leslie Nei­dig, Regional Direc­tor, and Grace Cham­bers, State Direc­tor, as well as Carol Savkovich, board chair of Ken­tucky Reli­gious Coali­tion for Repro­duc­tive Choice, pose with Cecile Richards (middle).

When Richards took to the podium, she spoke about the well-publicized attacks against Planned Par­ent­hood over the last year and a half, as right-wing forces in the U.S. Con­gress and beyond have sought to defund Planned Par­ent­hood at every turn.

Yet, the over­all tenor of her speech was hopeful.

We are mov­ing for­ward. It’s a dif­fi­cult polit­i­cal time,” Richards said, and, in reac­tion, sup­port­ers of Planned Par­ent­hood have ral­lied around the orga­ni­za­tion like never before, as last night’s fundraiser demonstrates.

I have to give a big shout out to the U.S. Con­gress for ignit­ing the fire,” Richards quipped.

Richards also gave a shout out to Planned Parenthood’s male sup­port­ers and to PP of Kentucky’s teen­REACH peer edu­ca­tors for fight­ing for ade­quate sex edu­ca­tion in our schools. Watch their awe­some sex ed video here.

If you missed the fundraiser, never fear; there is no time like the present to donate and get involved.

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Everything you need to know about the 2012 Kentucky Derby

Ah, the Ken­tucky Derby: that one time of year when the rest of the coun­try sees that we are not just the tooth­less poor. We are the gaudy rich, as well. 

The L.A. Times reports that the Ken­tucky Derby is the only annual sport­ing event that is watched by more women than men.

Big floppy hats.

Rosie Napravnik becomes the first female jockey to win the Ken­tucky Oaks.

Host­ing a Derby party? Try my recipe for mint juleps, made with 100% sex­ual harass­ment–free bour­bon!

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Beauties and Brutes

One fem­i­nist tests the empow­er­ing pos­si­bil­i­ties of burlesque

 KP is a 24-year-old grad­u­ate stu­dent. In her debut post for Her­Linked, KP explains why it was fem­i­nism that led her both to join and quit a Ken­tucky bur­lesque troupe.

Let me start by say­ing, I am a fem­i­nist. This is a label I am proud of, a label that rep­re­sents equal­ity and jus­tice not only for women, but also for all human beings.  Being a fem­i­nist, to me, means rec­og­niz­ing the inter­sec­tion­al­ity of oppres­sion. You can­not com­bat gen­der inequal­ity with­out also com­bat­ing inequal­i­ties based on race, eth­nic­ity, sex­ual ori­en­ta­tion, dis­abil­ity sta­tus, etc. Fem­i­nism is about empow­er­ing the masses; it’s about empow­er­ing your­self.  This was how I approached bur­lesque dancing.

My rea­sons for want­ing to be a bur­lesque dancer were com­plex. I have always had a prob­lem with society’s “Madonna / whore” com­plex. That is, forc­ing women to either be pure, vir­ginal good­ness or dirty, sex­ual evil.  I wanted to use bur­lesque danc­ing as a rejec­tion of this oppres­sive concept.

Although I have always been a polit­i­cal activist and pushed the bound­aries ide­al­is­ti­cally and aca­d­e­m­i­cally, I have been accused of being a “goody two shoes” when it comes to sex­u­al­ity. Let me explain: it is not in my per­son­al­ity to sleep with many men. I have sex only within the bounds of a seri­ous rela­tion­ship. How­ever, I’ve always been both­ered by the fact that my “low num­ber” leads peo­ple to believe I’m prud­ish or didn’t like sex. The other reac­tion I get from peo­ple is, “Good for you for not whor­ing around.”

To me, while there are a vari­ety of inten­tions behind these responses, both are prob­lem­atic.  Why is it that in order to be a sex­u­ally lib­er­ated woman I have to sleep with many men? And why is it that, in some people’s eyes, sleep­ing with a very small amount of peo­ple some­how makes me bet­ter than women who sleep with many peo­ple? Both of these judg­ments are two dimen­sional and limiting.

When I met the women in the troupe..they told me it was absolutely about empow­er­ment, about feel­ing great about your body and about own­ing your sex­u­al­ity.  And for a hot minute, that’s what it was about…

I decided to do bur­lesque because I wanted to throw up the mid­dle fin­ger to this whole line of thought. I wanted to be empow­ered, to own my sex­u­al­ity, to prove that you can be a sex­u­ally empow­ered woman with­out sleep­ing with lots of men. I also wanted to prove that I don’t gather my worth from the idea that I’ve slept with fewer peo­ple than most. I wanted to reject Madonna / whore and I wanted to have fun doing it. Bur­lesque seemed the per­fect venue for this. And when I met the women in the troupe, they con­firmed all of my feel­ings. They told me it was absolutely about empow­er­ment, about feel­ing great about your body and about own­ing your sex­u­al­ity.  And for a hot minute, that’s what it was about…

The deeper I got into bur­lesque the more I real­ized that it wasn’t quite as ide­al­is­tic as I’d hoped.  Con­tinue read­ing »

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44 years after MLK assassination, Lexington sanitation workers stand up

Con­tin­u­ing our ongo­ing cov­er­age of the labor move­ment, here’s some­thing inter­est­ing for your Sat­ur­day morning:

A major­ity of Lex­ing­ton city san­i­ta­tion work­ers have peti­tioned the local gov­ern­ment for recog­ni­tion as a union.

On Wednes­day, peti­tion cards autho­riz­ing the Amer­i­can Fed­er­a­tion of State, County and Munic­i­pal Employ­ees to rep­re­sent city san­i­ta­tion work­ers were sub­mit­ted to the city’s chief admin­is­tra­tive offi­cer, Richard Moloney. The autho­riza­tion cards were signed by more than 60 per­cent of the city’s approx­i­mately 190 san­i­ta­tion workers.

The work­ers sub­mit­ted their peti­tions on the 44th anniver­sary of the assas­si­na­tion of Dr. Mar­tin Luther King, Jr., who was in Mem­phis that day in April to stand with san­i­ta­tion work­ers who were on strike and seek­ing to form a union to bet­ter their work­ing con­di­tions and pay.

Gotta love when his­tory and social jus­tice merge so serendipitously.

 

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Score one for reproductive rights in Kentucky

Ken­tucky women and allies can breathe a lit­tle eas­ier (metaphor­i­cally, of course; it’s more pollen than air out there guys):

The Ken­tucky House Health and Wel­fare Com­mit­tee struck down three bills that would have restricted access to abortion yesterday.

Here’s what would have been:

SB 103 would have required that an ultra­sound be per­formed on a woman seek­ing an abor­tion and that the physi­cian attempt to show her the image of the fetus. Mer­ci­fully, the woman would have been allowed to look away.

SB 102 would have required in-person coun­sel­ing 24 hours before obtain­ing an abortion.

HB 164 would have banned abor­tions in which a fetal heart­beat was detected.

But these bills are going nowhere, at least for now.

Another rea­son to celebrate: Hunger Games debuts today, obvi­ously. Pre-movie imbib­ing will include themed cock­tails like The Haymitch, which I believe is sim­ply one guz­zle from a bot­tle of vodka (served warm).

May the odds…

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Ken­tucky panel kills three abor­tion bills (Is that sup­posed to be punny, CoJo?)

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Fetal Seance Bill” sits before Kentucky House Committee

Via Bare­foot and Pro­gres­sive:

The Ken­tucky State Sen­ate last month passed a bill that would require doc­tors to force women seek­ing an abor­tion to have an ultrasound.

If the woman refuses to look at the forcible ultra­sound, the doc­tor would be required to explain the image at length and in detail.

It is unclear what hap­pens if the woman both averts her eyes and plugs up her ears and screams. Hope­fully both doc­tor and patient will be impris­oned for a very long time.

The “Fetal Seance Bill,” B&P’s term of endear­ment for SB 103, currently sits before the Ken­tucky House Stand­ing Com­mit­tee on Health and Wel­fare. Give ‘em hell.

Accord­ing to his bio, com­mit­tee chair Rep­re­sen­ta­tive Tom Burch (D-Louisville) has had rela­tions with the National Orga­ni­za­tion for Women and the Ken­tucky Domes­tic Vio­lence Asso­ci­a­tion. So, we shall see.

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YA novelist Kristen Simmons has successful homecoming in Louisville

Crowd for Kristen Simmons at Carmichael's in Louisville, KY

Crowd for author Kris­ten Sim­mons at Carmichael’s Book­store in Louisville, KY

Louisville’s favorite local book­store Carmichael’s was down­right stuffy tonight, packed as it was with women and men of all ages.

They gath­ered for a Q&A and read­ing by for­mer Louisvil­lian and cur­rent Florid­ian nov­el­ist Kris­ten Sim­mons.

Crowd at Carmichael's Bookstore for Kristen Simmons

Sim­mons’ debut novel, “Arti­cle 5,” is, accord­ing to Carmichael’s,

a dystopian teen thriller. Set in a future Amer­ica where the Bill of Rights has been revoked and replaced with the Moral Statutes, it is the story of 17-year-old Ember Miller and her free-spirit mother. When her mother is arrested for being morally sus­pect, Ember is sent to a repres­sive reform school. What fol­lows is a tale about stand­ing up for what you believe in and for what’s right — even if there are hor­rific con­se­quences. Fans of The Hunger Games will love this excit­ing new novel, the first in a planned trilogy.

Ember and her mother live in Louisville but are torn from their home in Chap­ter 1. Sim­mons said that she and her hus­band used to live very close to Carmichael’s (on Frank­fort Avenue), and that, like the main char­ac­ters in “Arti­cle 5,” she thinks often of the place she once called home.

Even though we’ve moved out of this place, we think about it a lot, and we ref­er­ence it all the time,” Sim­mons said of her and her hus­band Jason.

After a Q&A with the audi­ence, Sim­mons read the arrest scene from Chap­ter 1, in which Ember’s mother is arrested for retroac­tively vio­lat­ing Arti­cle 5 of the Moral Statutes, which states that “Chil­dren are con­sid­ered valid cit­i­zens only when con­ceived by a mar­ried man and wife.”

A few of the other Arti­cles include, “Arti­cle 1 — The United States embraces the Church of Amer­ica as her offi­cial reli­gion. Arti­cle 2 — Lit­er­a­ture and other media con­sid­ered immoral are hereby banned and shall not be owned, bought, sold, or traded in any capac­ity,” and, my per­sonal favorite, “Arti­cle 4 – Tra­di­tional male and female roles shall be observed.”

You see where Sim­mons is going with this. It is the Rom­ney, Gin­grich, San­to­rum vision of Amer­i­can. It’s the Amer­i­can fore­warned in “The Handmaid’s Tale,” in “The Hunger Games,” and by today’s online fem­i­nist com­mu­nity. But our brave, rebel­lious hero­ine Ember isn’t going down with­out a fight.

Kristen Simmons at Carmichael's Bookstore in Louisville, Kentucky for Article 5 signing

Kris­ten Sim­mons sign­ing her debut novel “Arti­cle 5″ at Carmichael’s in Louisville, KY.

Sim­mons spoke openly about how hard she her­self had to fight to get pub­lished. She wrote for seven years before catch­ing a break, and in that time accrued over 200 rejec­tion let­ters. Sim­mons views this period as prepa­ra­tion for the time in which the “stars aligned” for her.

Sim­mons said, “It was the right time. It was the right man­u­script,” refer­ring to “Arti­cle 5.”

What did Sim­mons do to sup­port her­self dur­ing these seven years of writ­ing and rejec­tion? She worked as a men­tal health ther­a­pist (a few of her for­mer co-workers were in the audi­ence tonight). Men­tal health issues are explored in “Arti­cle 5,” as the main char­ac­ters attempt to deal with the var­i­ous crises they must face.

The sec­ond install­ment in the tril­ogy is set to come out next Jan­u­ary, and the third and final install­ment the Jan­u­ary after that. Buy “Arti­cle 5” at your local book­store or online.

Don’t go look­ing for it at Carmichael’s tonight, though. They’re hap­pily sold out.

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Kentucky Woman Wins Case with National Labor Relations Board

In my inau­gural post, I thought I’d high­light a recent bit of news about a Louisville woman who was ter­mi­nated from her job at Our Lady of Peace hos­pi­tal last year for try­ing to orga­nize a union.  Joe Sonka at Leo Weekly first cov­ered the story last year:

Amy Doyle had worked at Our Lady of Peace psy­chi­atric hos­pi­tal for nearly nine years, most recently as a men­tal health asso­ciate work­ing with men­tally retarded teenagers at a group home where she helped them with school and activ­i­ties of daily living.

But in late Sep­tem­ber, Our Lady of Peace man­age­ment sud­denly sus­pended Doyle.

They sus­pended me for ‘dis­tri­b­u­tion of non-work mate­ri­als and dis­cus­sion of non-work related top­ics, to the level of harass­ment,’” Doyle says. “That was their actual word­ing. But they never told me what I was dis­trib­ut­ing. They never told me who I was harassing.”

The whole arti­cle is worth a read, as is the fol­lowup, here.  News just came down this week that the NLRB, who heard tes­ti­mony in Amy’s case in Jan­u­ary of this year, has issued a rul­ing.  The hos­pi­tal has been ordered to put Amy back to work within four­teen days, give her all of her back wages, and post a notice at all of their facil­i­ties announc­ing that they have vio­lated fed­eral labor law and that their employ­ees have a legal right to form a union.

More cov­er­age here and here.

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Moving on after Friday’s storms / How to help

This used to be a barn.

March 2, 2012 tornado damage in East Bernstadt, KY

This used to be a trailer.

March 2, 2012 tornado damage in East Bernstadt, KY

These are scenes from the after­math of the storms that rav­aged the South­east and Mid­west on Fri­day. They are specif­i­cally of a stretch of West High­way 1376 in East Bern­stadt, a small town in Lau­rel County, Ken­tucky.  Kayla Vanover of Pikeville, KY drove to East Bern­stadt on Sat­ur­day to doc­u­ment the dam­age done to her family’s home.

While there were no fatal­i­ties on West High­way, a street called Lit­tle Arthur Ridge was not so lucky. There were five fatal­i­ties in Lau­rel County, all occur­ring in East Bern­stadt. The state total stands at 21. The Lau­rel County Judge-Executive esti­mates that 100 homes were destroyed, many of those being mobile homes, and 100 seri­ously dam­aged, in a town of approx­i­mately 800 people.

Many in this com­mu­nity and oth­ers like it do not have the finan­cial resources, much less home insur­ance, nec­es­sary to recover quickly or com­pletely from dam­age like this. They must rely on their com­mu­nity, on the tree removal com­pany that came out to clear debris for free and on neigh­bors who went from house to house, not ask­ing but sim­ply pitch­ing in, tarp­ing win­dows, remov­ing debris, and so on.

The tor­na­does may be gone, but for sur­vivors the storm has just begun. Please pitch in by donat­ing to a dis­as­ter relief orga­ni­za­tion like the Amer­i­can Red Cross. Urge friends, fam­ily and co-workers to do the same.

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Blue­grass Area Red Cross

Lau­rel County hit by one of the strongest twisters

Clear-up after tor­na­does wreak havoc across US Midwest

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